“Women can go over it again and again in their minds, finding all kinds of deficiencies in themselves-"I didn't do this right,"
"I wasn't good enough," "I didn't love him the way I should,"
"she came in here and outperformed me"-but the fact still remeinas that he didn't have any business cheating. So women need to realease themselves from the blame of a cheating man's actions-just do that for yourselves.
Because holding on to that baggage can be paralyzing; it can cripple you and keep you from performing in your next encounter.
You simply cannot drive forward if you're focused on what's happening in the rearview mirror.”