Falling In Love is Stupid (1)

Sincerely, I really don’t care what all the love songs say and what the romantic movies and novels would have you believe. 

Falling in love is a waste of time and does no one any good. It wears off sooner than later and leaves you staring at your palms like an idiot…

I have seen otherwise smart and self-respecting people felt and acted, ridiculously stupid and call it love. For those who have dated quite a few, is it possible to look back on your dating years without asking yourself “what was I thinking?

You are always finding pathetic excuses to call her again and again even when she doesn’t call back. You are always caught in between thoughts of how to bump into her outside her house by accident.

I don’t know anyone who hasn’t, at least once, gone crazy over love when you can’t stop those compulsive phone and e-mail-checking, the constant texting, and the Facebook and twitter stalking. Or you can’t stop yourself from calling her name every minute. 

Or shut out all those premature thoughts of what your wedding will be like, and what you’ll name your children.

 You can’t stop wondering if she has fallen in love with you on your first date. What more conviction do you need to know you are going crazy?

To be continued...