Friday, February 28, 2014

Makadinali wajadili talaka Kanisa Katoliki


VATICAN CITY -  


The issue of divorce is stoking a spirited debate between Catholic cardinals and revealing the challenges and expectations for Pope Francis after his promises to put the Church more in touch with modern life.

The question is whether divorcees who re-marry should be allowed to take part in the most sacred point of Catholic mass, Holy Communion, which is forbidden under current rules that in practice are often not observed.

Changing the doctrine could in turn alter Church rules on marriage annulments and raise broader questions about the institution of marriage, prompting lively exchanges between traditionalists and reformers.

Cardinal Philippe Barbarin, the archbishop of Lyon in France, told Vatican radio that a meeting of cardinals from around the world in the Vatican this month devoted "80 to 90 percent" of the time to discussing the issue.

German Cardinal Ludwig Mueller, head of the Church's doctrinal watchdog, the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, has said the current rules are "impossible to change" and that people should stop thinking of marriage as "a party in a church".

Honduran Cardinal Oscar Andres Rodriguez Maradiaga, a member of the council of eight cardinals established by the pope to advise him, has taken a more lenient line and has asked Mueller to be "more flexible".

A survey by the Spanish-language network Univision in 12 mainly Catholic countries found that 75 percent of Europeans, 67 percent of Latin Americans and 59 percent of Americans were at odds with the Church on the issue, while in Africa 19 percent of respondents disagreed.

The issue is one of very personal anguish for many Catholic couples, who say they are being treated as second-class believers, and has led to acts of defiance.

The German diocese of Freiburg im Breisgau last year said it was authorizing re-married divorcees to receive Holy Communion on a case by case basis -- prompting a quick telling off from the Vatican.

The issue would affect millions of Catholics around the world, with around a quarter of Catholic marriages ending in divorce in the United States alone.

Some theologians and clergymen have called for changes to facilitate the annulment of marriages in cases in which it could be argued that the wedding took place under social pressure or was not fully understood.

Re-marrying would then be allowed under Church rules and the couple would be allowed to take Holy Communion.

Another possibility could be the Orthodox model, which allows some divorcees to re-marry in church and take Holy Communion but gives only a blessing for the second marriage and does not consider it a sacrament.

Francis mentioned the Orthodox solution as a "parenthesis" on the plane during his return from a visit to Brazil and it was raised again by some cardinals in their consistory this month in which they said it could happen following "a period of penitence".

The issue is likely to dominate a synod of world bishops planned for later this year and another one in 2015, which Francis has said should focus on families.

The divorce debate was raised in an unprecedented questionnaire sent out to dioceses worldwide to find out the approach taken by parishes on many issues, including same-sex couples and pre-marital cohabitation.

Vatican expert Henri Tincq, writing on the website Slate.fr, said the divorce issue is particularly complex on a theological level since "a sacrament is given by God and can never be taken back".

AFP

Mke amtesa mumewe kwa Facebook

My wife is always on Facebook, am I safe?

We have been together for nine years and we have three children. Since August 2012, we have had serious misunderstandings over her Facebook friends because they call her almost every day.

I shared my concerns with her, saying I was not comfortable with the calls she was receiving, but she turned a deaf ear to my complaints, so I involved her relatives to help make her change her ways. This was in vain.

I tried to stop her from using an Internet enabled phone, but lost that battle too.

I was forced to look for her five regular callers, who happen to be the men who are her friends on Facebook. 

One of them was abroad last year, but he has now returned to Uganda and she has his current phone number. Am I safe?

L.A.K

 newvision

Hongera Zitto

Rihanna

Rihanna at the February 27 Lanvin show.Rihanna goes braless at Paris Fashion WeekONE minute she’s showing her cleavage, the next she’s covered head to toe in fleece and fur. 

There’s one thing that’s for sure: Rihanna never fails to surprise with her fashion choices. 

 news.com.au

Kwa nini unaoa/ unaolewa?

 happy_elderly_couple_americare

1. WHY do you want to get married? 

  Interrogate your reasons, your motive. Is it because you want to love and be loved long term? To raise a family? To raise a God-loving family? 

For companionship? Or is it because society is forcing you? It’s the next phase after University/ College and work?

 You want to copy what your peers have done? Single parenthood is a burden to you and you want to use marriage to escape or lighten the burden? 

You want to hook up with someone for financial security?… Your motive will dictate everything. If your reasons are wrong or misplaced, everything else that follows will be messed up.

2. WHO do you get married to? 

 Once you have your reasons and motive, find someone who fits that motive.

 If your reason is love, companionship, to raise a family, someone to grow with; choose someone with the right qualities. A bus to Nigeria will not take you to South Africa.

3. WHEN do you get married? 

It’s one thing to meet the person right for marriage, it’s another to get married. Take time to know each other, don’t rush the process of courtship but don’t delay it too. 

You both have to be ready for marriage not just one of you. None should feel rushed or forced.

Are there things to do before marriage? You will never be fully ready for marriage but you must be sufficiently ready, the foundation is crucial

4. HOW do you get married? 

 This one is all about both your preference and style plus your financial muscle. Is it a garden wedding, church wedding, an intimate wedding, a big wedding, a musical wedding, a wedding at the Attorney General’s?

 Be careful not to spend so much money on a lavish wedding and end up with a broke home in marriage. What’s the point in making a big show for the public but financially struggle as a married couple?

 You can do a small wedding and renew your vows in a big way some years into the marriage.

 5. WHAT kind of marriage will you have? 

This one is dictated by what kind of spouse you will be and what kind of spouse your partner will be when already married. 

Don’t change, don’t stop pleasing each other, don’t stop learning each other, making each other smile when you get married.

 Spice up your love, have affairs with each other and not outsiders, flirt with each other, go on dates with your wife/ husband!

Capital

Koffi Olomide 'kukamua' harusi ya mtoto wa Mugabe



Popular rhumba artist Koffi Olomide, who is in the country ahead of President Mugabe’s daughter Bona’s wedding, says he will shoot part of a video of his latest album in Harare as appreciation to Zimbabweans’ love for his music.
 


The rhumba star, who will on Saturday preform at Bona Mugabe and Simba Chikore’s wedding, arrived in Zimbabwe with his group from the DRC on Thursday morning.



The internationally acclaimed artist said in appreciation of his fans in Zimbabwe, he will shoot part of a video on his latest album in Harare. 


 
He could, however, not reveal the name of his yet to be released album.



The rhumba maestro said he is honoured to perfom at the Zimbabwe First Family wedding, adding that it is in the African spirit to appreciate the role being played by President Mugabe in ensuring unity, peace and stability on the continent.



“Lets all emulate his role in this continent,” said Olomide.



Olomide, who holds a Bachelor’s degree in Business Economics and a Masters degree in Mathematics from the University of Paris, launched his solo music career in 1986 after a stint with Papa Wemba.



He popularised the slower style of soukous which he dubbed tcha tscho.

Wenger- Ligi ya England ndiyo bora Ulaya

“I maintain that [it is the best], despite the results, because it is the most level league,” Wenger said.


 “There is not the difference of quality - for example, between Bayern Munich and the rest of the German league.


“You have Bayern, Dortmund, then after that there is a big gap. Dortmund this year are not so much there [at their best] because they had many injuries.


“I feel that [in England] you can go to Cardiff, anybody, and lose. Spain was a good league as well, but this season the English league is the most difficult.


“Maybe we pay a little bit the price for that [due to its] toughness, the intensity. You cannot rest any player. In every single game you just have to focus on getting the best team out.”


Wenger says too much has been made of recent Champions League results and points out that, historically, Premier League clubs have been very competitive in Europe.


“It is too early to say that there is a trend there,” he said. “If you look in the last 10 years, the English clubs in the Champions League have done extremely well.


“After that you have Barcelona and Barcelona is Barcelona. Real Madrid is Real Madrid. Bayern is Bayern. When you play against these teams you can lose.


“The Champions League is a championship and a cup. Once you go into the cup, it can depend on one sending off, on one game. It is very difficult. At the end of the day, you know that one good team will win it, but maybe when you look well, this team sometimes was a bit lucky in one or two games.


“Like last year, everybody said the German league is suddenly the best league in the world. But that is not more true than this year because they are the same teams.”

Arsenal

Flamini- Nafanya 'vurugu' kuisaidia timu


“My most important job on the pitch is to protect the back four and it is not easy, especially when the other team is focused offensively and has so many players of real quality,” Flamini told Arsenal Player.


“I try to stay in front of the back four, to protect Koscielny and Mertesacker. I’m also trying to co-ordinate between defence and attack, because what is important in football is to attack together and defend together.


“The team is so offensive, everyone goes forward and that is part of the characteristic of Arsenal. We play football based on attacking very quickly; that is the beauty of our game.


“At the same time we have to make sure we don’t face any counter-attacks and stay very high so we can get the ball back when we lose it. It is always much easier to defend when the team is very high.


“When I play with any of the boys in midfield I have to sit in front of the defence and do the dirty work but I enjoy doing it. My pleasure is to give them the possibility to attack and, when we lose the ball, to get it back as quickly as possible.”


“It is good to have someone who gives you some help, someone to talk to you, it is very important,” he said. 


“I am trying to help my partners, to speak to them and also get them to speak because football today is all about communication.”

Arsenal

Wapenzi wanasana wakizini


Nukuu ya leo

“Mtoto wa kike asiwe kitega uchumi cha familia, wazazi washirikiane na walimu katika kuwarithisha watoto elimu, wekezeni katika elimu, tusiwarithishe watoto mashamba, mali na magari bali elimu,”Mkuu wa Mkoa wa Mwanza, Evarist Ndikilo.

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

What you don't know about marriage


Pacha wanne waendelea vizuri



Baba wa watoto pacha wanne, Webson Simkanga na mkewe Aida Nakawala wakiwa wamewabeba watoto wao.

Watoto pacha wanne
Pacha wanne kutoka kulia ni Asifiwe, Daudi,Anania na Alinikumbu

Baba na Mama wanne wakifurahia misaada iliyotolewa na wasamaria wema kwa ajili ya familia yao.

WATOTO  wanne  pacha waliozaliwa usiku wa kuamkia Mwaka mpya wa 2014 katika Hospitali ya Wazazi ya META jijini Mbeya wanaendelea vizuri.
  Mama mzazi wa watot hao, Aida Nakawala (25) mkazi wa kijiji cha Chiwanda, Wilaya ya Momba, Mkoa wa Mbeya, amewashukuru wasamaria wema kwa kuendelea kutoa misaada iliyosaidia watoto hao kukua vizuri.
Baba Mzazi wa watoto hao, Webson Simkanga (28) amesema, hana uwezo kiuchumi lakini kutokana misaada mbali mbali aipatayo kutoka kwa wasamaria wema afya ya watoto wake inaimarika.
  Simkanga ametoa majina kwa watoto hao wanaotarajiwa kubatizwa Machi tisa mwaka huu katika kanisa la African Mission Church (AMC).
Aliwataja majina watoto hao kuanzia wa kwanza hadi wa Mwisho kuwa ni Alinikumbu (mtoto  mwenye huruma), Daudi, Asifiwe na Anania.
 
Kwa hisani ya Blog ya Mbeyayetu.

Makalio bandia yanavyopagawisha wanaume

 

It has suddenly become "curvaceous women galore" on Bulawayo streets thanks to artificial hips and bums that are selling for as little as $17 a pair.


Women interviewed yesterday said the much sought after hour glass figure was only a few dollars away.


"This product has done wonders for my confidence. Everywhere I go, men cannot resist me. I am very beautiful but I was cursed with a European's behind. It is flat. The artificial bums are just what I needed to complete myself," said the woman.


A number of men however said being in a relationship with a woman whose artificial hips attracted you to her in the first place, was immoral on the part of the woman.


"I would not hesitate to beat up such a woman because they would be taking me for a ride. I8 hate these artificial women who expect to get real men with their fake hips, eyelashes and tons of make-up," said Xolani Banda.


An official at Esats in Bulawayo, that sells the hips, said the product was often out of stock as demand was high.


"We started selling the artificial bums in January and we have run out of stock three times. More than 400 units have been sold. The stuff, if properly worn, looks very real. It has none of the side effects that people who use dangerous chemicals to enhance their shapes suffer," said the official.

A 60-year-old woman who bought the hips said she felt like a teenager.


"I often catch younger men staring at me in awe, lust and disbelief. More men are flirting with me after I introduced more curves on my body. I do not know what it is about men and curves. It is like the whole universe ends for them when they see a bootylicious woman," quipped the woman. 

 bulawayo24
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It has suddenly become "curvaceous women galore" on Bulawayo streets thanks to artificial hips and bums that are selling for as little as $17 a pair.

Women interviewed yesterday said the much sought after hour glass figure was only a few dollars away.

"This product has done wonders for my confidence. Everywhere I go, men cannot resist me. I am very beautiful but I was cursed with a European's behind. It is flat. The artificial bums are just what I needed to complete myself," said the woman.

A number of men however said being in a relationship with a woman whose artificial hips attracted you to her in the first place, was immoral on the part of the woman.

"I would not hesitate to beat up such a woman because they would be taking me for a ride. I8 hate these artificial women who expect to get real men with their fake hips, eyelashes and tons of make-up," said Xolani Banda.

An official at Esats in Bulawayo, that sells the hips, said the product was often out of stock as demand was high.

"We started selling the artificial bums in January and we have run out of stock three times. More than 400 units have been sold. The stuff, if properly worn, looks very real. It has none of the side effects that people who use dangerous chemicals to enhance their shapes suffer," said the official.




A 60-year-old woman who bought the hips said she felt like a teenager.

"I often catch younger men staring at me in awe, lust and disbelief. More men are flirting with me after I introduced more curves on my body. I do not know what it is about men and curves. It is like the whole universe ends for them when they see a bootylicious woman," quipped the woman.
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Spika Zimbabwe awaponda wabunge

SPEAKER of the National Assembly Jacob Mudenda has bemoaned the limited academic qualifications of some legislators saying this contributes to their failure to grasp parliamentary processes.
 

He said this while addressing students from the National Defence College at Parliament last week.
 

The students were drawn from the Zimbabwe National Army, Air Force of Zimbabwe, Zimbabwe Republic Police, Zimbabwe Prisons and Correctional Services, the President's Office, and the ministries of Foreign Affairs and Finance.
 

"To be an MP, there is no basic academic or professional qualification requirement. They come by popular vote. The only requirement is that you should be over 18 and be a registered voter.
 

"So, you get people who are so popular for some reason and come to Parliament but they do not have the basic academic tools to understand some of the Bills. Some of the Bills address complicated and technical issues and they (MPs) get lost," he said.
 
 
bulawayo24

SPEAKER of the National Assembly Jacob Mudenda has bemoaned the limited academic qualifications of some legislators saying this contributes to their failure to grasp parliamentary processes.

He said this while addressing students from the National Defence College at Parliament last week.

The students were drawn from the Zimbabwe National Army, Air Force of Zimbabwe, Zimbabwe Republic Police, Zimbabwe Prisons and Correctional Services, the President's Office, and the ministries of Foreign Affairs and Finance.

"To be an MP, there is no basic academic or professional qualification requirement. They come by popular vote. The only requirement is that you should be over 18 and be a registered voter.

"So, you get people who are so popular for some reason and come to Parliament but they do not have the basic academic tools to understand some of the Bills. Some of the Bills address complicated and technical issues and they (MPs) get lost," he said
- See more at: http://bulawayo24.com/index-id-news-sc-national-byo-43322.html#sthash.1GBbPfz9.dpuf

Bachelor party ya mkwe wa Mugabe


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Bwana harusi mtarajiwa, Simba Chikore na familia yake wakiwasili kwa ajili ya sherehe hiyo.

Mkwe mtarajiwa wa Rais Robert Mugabe, Simba Chikore leo anafanya sherehe ya kuagwa 'Bachelors Party' katika ukumbi wa Jacaranda uliopo kwenye jengo liitwalo Rainbow Towers jijini Harare nchini Zimbabwe.


Kwa mujibu wa kadi kwa waalikwa, sherehe hiyo itaanza saa 12 jioni leo Jumatano, na hakuna ruhusa kupiga picha wakati wa 'mnuso' huo


Inakadiriwa kuwa wageni wa kimataifa 72 wamealikwa kwenye sherehe hiyo inayotarajiwa kufanyika kukiwa na ulinzi mkali.


Simba ni rubani katika Shirika la Ndege la Qatar Airways, anamuoa binti wa Mugabe, Bona (24)Machi Mosi mwaka huu nyumbani wa kiongozi huyo.

Malema adaiwa kumpiga dereva wa bodaboda


 Economic Freedom Fighters leader Julius Malema and three other men are being investigated for an alleged road rage incident that took place in Polokwane, Limpopo police said on Wednesday. 


“A case of common assault and damage to property has been opened by a motorist, who said Malema and three men assaulted him in a street in Polokwane on Tuesday night,” said spokesman Brigadier Hangwani Mulaudzi. 


The 22-year-old motorist, which Beeld named as Bernard Redelinghuys, alleged that he was cornered by a Mercedes Benz when he turned into the street. 


The Mercedes Benz drove closely next to him, Hangwani said. 


“The motorist said he hooted to the driver of the Mercedes to make him aware that he was too close to him, but to no avail. The Mercedes then stopped in front of him,” said Hangwani. 


Three men got out of the Mercedes Benz, grabbed the motorist and manhandled him while shouting at him.
Malema allegedly got out of the Mercedes Benz and joined the three men. 


“Malema allegedly slapped the 22-year-old and hit his car, it is not clear what object Malema used to hit the car. The four men then got into their vehicle and drove away,” he said. 


Mulaudzi said the motorist could only recognise Malema. 

Police are investigating. - Sapa

Museveni- Mdomo ni kwa ajili ya kula si SEX

Gays face life in jail after Uganda leader signs law
“One of the cultures that we detest is oral sex. The mouth is for picking food, not for sex. We know the address for sex. That address (the mouth) is not for sex,” 

 “The mouth is for eating not for sex. The mouth is engineered for kissing.”
 President Yoweri Museveni

Mtoto wa miaka 10 aiba gari, aliendesha km 30

Oslo - MTOTO raia wa Norway mwenye umri wa miaka 10 ameiba gari kwa mara ya pili na kuliendesha kilomita 30!

Mtoto huyo aliiba gari la ndugu aliyekuwa amekwenda kuwasalimia nyumbani kwao na aliposimamishwa alidanganya kuwa yeye ni mbilikimo na alikuwa amesahau leseni yake.

Hiyo ilikuwa mara ya pili kwa mtoto huyo kuiba gari, awali aliiba gari la familia yao, akampakiza mdogo wake mwenye umri wa miezi 18, na akaliendesha kwenda kuwasalimia bibi na babu yao wanaoishi umbali wa kilomita 60 kutoka nyumbani kwao (kwa mtoto huyo).

 Soma hapo chini 

 A 10-year-old Norwegian boy who took his parents' car for a joyride last week, claiming he was a dwarf who forgot his driver's license, has hit the road again. 


This time he took off in the car of a relative the family was visiting and managed to drive about 30km before stopping, local police said on Thursday. 


When the parents realised what happened, they phoned police who sent out messages over Twitter and traffic radio asking the public for help. The boy eventually stopped and a bystander took his keys away, police said. 


The boy caused a stir last week in Dokka, his hometown about 110km north of Oslo, when he loaded his 18-month-old sister in the family car and drove off to visit their grandparents 60km away, only to drive into a snowy ditch after 10km. 


Police had considered the case closed. But they were not so forgiving about the second incident and have reported the family to child services. 


“Nobody was injured, but that was more due to luck than anything else,” Baard Christiansen, a spokesman for the Vest Oppland police, told Reuters. 

“The adults around the boy must take responsibility now before a tragedy occurs. 


“It is scary and very sad that he is allowed to keep going on like this,” he said. - 

Reuters

Museveni- Hakuna mtu anayezaliwa SHOGA


 

...there is no single gene that has been traced to cause homosexuality. What I want them to clarify is whether a combination of genes can cause anybody to be homosexual. Then my task will be finished and I will sign the Bill.





After my statement to that effect which was quoted widely around the world, I got reactions from some friends from outside Africa. Statements like: “it is a matter of choice” or “whom they love” which President Obama repeated in his statement would be most furiously rejected by almost the entirety of our people.


It cannot be a matter of choice for a man to behave like a woman or vice-versa. The argument I had pushed was that there could be people who are born like that or “who they are”, according to President Obama’s statement. 
iol pic afr ugand anti-gay protests
AFP
Photo taken on February 14, 2010 shows Ugandans taking part in an anti-gay demonstrationy at Jinja, Kampala
 
 
I, therefore, encourage the US government to help us by working with our scientists to study whether, indeed, there are people who are born homosexual. When that is proved, we can review this legislation.



I would be among those who will spearhead that effort. That is why I had refused to sign the Bill until my premise was knocked down by the position of our Scientists. 


I would like to discourage the USA government from taking the line that passing this law will “complicate our valued relationship” with the USA as President Obama said. Countries and societies should relate with each other on the basis of mutual respect and independence in decision making.

“Valued relationship” cannot be sustainably maintained by one Society being subservient to another society. There are myriad acts the societies in the West do that we frown on or even detest. We, however, never comment on those acts or make them preconditions for working with the West.

Africans do not seek to impose their views on anybody. We do not want anybody to impose their views on us. This very debate was provoked by  Western groups who come to our schools and try to recruit children into homosexuality. It is better to limit the damage rather than exacerbate it.
I thank everybody.

Yoweri K. Museveni Gen. (Rtd) is president of Uganda